Several actions can weaken a marriage:
(1) Lack of understanding
(2) Pride
(3) Spite
(4) Jealousy
(5) Malice
(6) Rebuke
(7) Unjust
(8) Violence
(9) Deception
(10) Lies and distrust
(11) Unfaithfulness
(12) Disloyalty
(13) Lack of communication
Any marriage based on these foundations (or even less) will not last very long, a marriage build on these foundations is deprived of Allah (swt) Grace, His Mercies, His Guidance and His Prosperity. Also both parties would lose respect for each other, they would become truly distracted in their minds for each other love and sympathy would be the last thing on their minds for each other.
Safeguard yourselves from jealously; it is the Shaitan formula which causes spiritual blindness, by removing jealously from your heart for sure the light of blessings will come your way and peace, love and unity will start to follow you. You and your family would be saved from humiliation and wicked deeds.
It is Allah (swt) who brings forth light from darkness, life and activity from death, spiritual enlightens from ignorance and superstitions. Banish fear, trust in Allah and His providence; make Allah (swt) your shield of protection from evil.
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