(1) One who is wealthy and arrogant, they should engage much in charity, they should help the poor. The blessings from this kind of actions would make them humble and kind, and it would put mercy into their hearts and a fear (of respect) would over power their hearts for Allah (swt), as they say fear of Allah (swt) is akin to love: for it means the fear of offending Him or doing wrong things that would gain His displeasures. The Holy Qur’an mentions:
O ye who believe! Fear Allah, and let every soul look to what (provision) He has sent forth for the morrow. Yea, fear Allah. for Allah is well-acquainted with (all) that ye do. 59:18And be ye not like those who forgot Allah. and He made them forget their own souls! Such are the rebellious transgressors!59:19
(2) One must always be positive in their everyday life, for this kind of action would help one in their struggle to stand up firmly to the unjust of the tribulation in life’s conduct. It would also help them to constantly remember their Lord, which would strengthen their spirit.
(3) Resist evil suggestions; every man on this earth has some understanding of what goodness and evil are. Our souls every development of the human soul is of three stages, and Ammara is the one that is prone to evil, this evil soul would stop at nothing unless it gets to destroy one’s spiritual and material life, the evil conduct from this Ammara souls would be of several conduct of wrong actions, and if not check and controlled, it will lead to perdition. Some tips on how to help this soul of Ammara are build on these foundations: Insolence, hate, jealously and arrogance: Anyone who is walking around with this Ammara soul, and they wish to get help from Allah (swt) to purify their souls, then Insha Allah they will get help for sure if they sincerely put all their efforts into these few actions:
(1) Sincere repentance and amendments
(2) Nafl prayers must be constantly recited
(3) Engage much sincerity in the Zikr of Allah (swt)
(4) Cry and cry from the bottom (regrets) of the heart (with deep regrets of all of your wrong actions).
(5) Do not go around the people that you hurt willfully, until you can control yourself from hurting them
(6) Get involved in lots of good actions, and put your whole mind and soul into these actions of goodness; even a simple smile with sincerity can help to remove the stain of evil from the heart
(7) Exercise: Train yourself to patience and constancy in putting fear in your hearts for Allah’s (swt) sufferings
(8) Try putting yourself into the people’s shoes, which you willfully hurt, and see if you can bear the pain and grief that they suffered from your hands. Repentance and amendment is the best way to reach salvation.
The second stage of the soul is called Lawwama; it feels conscious of evil, but tries its best to resist it, and if it follows the evil whisper, it would quickly acknowledge it and seek Allah’s (swt) help with patience, repentance and with prayers and amends.
The third stage is called Mutma Inna which is the highest stage of all, and which reach and achieve great satisfaction. The Holy Qur’an states:
Those who behave arrogantly on the earth in defiance of right – them will I turn away from My signs: Even if they see all the signs, they will not believe in them; and if they see the way of right conduct, they will not adopt it as the way; but if they see the way of error, that is the way they will adopt. For they have rejected our signs, and failed to take warning from them. 7:146
Those who reject Our signs and the meeting in the Hereafter,- vain are their deeds: Can they expect to be rewarded except as they have wrought? 7:147
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